The language of family law has evolved to better reflect modern parenting arrangements. Canadian courts and legal professionals no longer use the traditional term "custody," which has been replaced with more precise terminology that focuses on the practical aspects of raising children after separation or divorce.

Since we no longer use the term custody, under the Family Law Act, we call it parenting responsibilities. And under the Divorce Act, it's called decision-making responsibilities. These terms outline how parents will make important decisions about a child's well-being, health, education, and general upbringing.

Most people will share joint parenting responsibilities, but you can choose to have one person with sole parenting responsibilities or divide them up between you so that you're each responsible for certain types of decisions.

Parenting time refers to how a child spends time with each parent. This typically involves creating a structured schedule that establishes general parameters for how each parent will spend time with their child.

When developing parenting time arrangements, several additional factors require consideration. Holiday schedules and school breaks need specific attention, as these periods often involve extended time with one parent or alternating arrangements. Special occasions such as birthdays, Mother's Day, and Father's Day also require planning to ensure both parents can maintain meaningful connections with their children during these important moments.

It's also important to think about travel. Whether for family vacations, visiting extended family, or work-related travel, clear guidelines help prevent conflicts and create clarity for future planning. Any other matters that relate to the way a child experiences time with each parent is also relevant.